"Norbert Bartel included the rare newspaper ad shown as part of his talk
Testing Einstein's Universe. The ad offers private tutoring by Albert
Einstein in physics and mathematics. The last line entices students with
a free trial hour."
Hmm, what can I say.
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Monday, November 26, 2012
Thanksgiving! Time to express gratitude!
It’s been 3 months of studying and adapting to new
environment in the University of Illinois as a freshman. Thanksgiving break
gives us students a perfect stop to take a rest and reflect on something
important before and after the break. Other than that, let’s not forget the
original meaning of the “thanksgiving”. This is a time to express our
appreciations to the givers.
The first givers that I can think of are my family,
especially parents. Parents are givers of my life. Beside this simple yet
powerful reason, they also support me to grow up to who I am now. The first
step I made, the first words I spoke, the first character I wrote… All of these
are impossible without their adequate care and patience. Moreover, as
elderlies, they guide me to a right path when I am faced with challenges that I
have never expected. They tell me how to react with their experiences and
provisions. Yet more thankfully, because of the fact that their experiences and
lives are unfortunately very limited so that I have to walk my path alone
sooner or later, they choose to mitigate their teaching (or control) of me at
the right time. That’s one of the reasons I’m here studying abroad in a brand
new community here in U of I. I’ve learned quite a lot about dealing new
problems alone since I found my way to campus from the airport (which marks the
beginning of my life in the States).
The second givers that I think of are friends (if I can
include teacher in this category). Friends are people that I can really rely on
when I leave my parents. They understand me well (often from a different
perspective than parents’) and share similar interests. For most of time,
friends are supporters. They can give me ideas when I need them, give me a hand
when I’m in trouble, etc. But sometimes, friends also stand out to point out my
mistakes justly. They are against me just because they don’t hope to see me on
a wrong path. This is in fact another kind of support if thinking this way.
Actually, true friends are those who dare to point out my mistakes in front of
me. The reason I include teachers here in the friend category is that, I think,
I always learn something from my friends, no matter the younger friends or
elderly friends. There is always something that my friend is good at but I’m
not. Thus friends, unconsciously or consciously, give me lessons like teachers.
Teachers, as a profession, are just consciously giving me lessons for most of
the time. So, I view teachers as friends. After all, if I have the chance to
keep in touch with teachers after I leave school, teachers and I will be
friends in the end if you think about it.
Third but not the least, leaders can be givers as well.
There are cases when I personally get something from leaders like leader’s
courage, leader’s guide, etc. But I think as a leader, the biggest contribution
should be done to the team as a whole. Leaders listen to their team
attentively, think deeply and finally based on that, make the bright decision
best benefiting the whole team. The team as a whole has the power to get things
done, but it is leaders who make the most important move, for example, decide
what each one of the team does so that the efficiency is maximized.
Monday, November 5, 2012
If there were no tomorrow
What if there were no tomorrow? If you woke up in the same morning everyday, what would you do?
- A review of Groundhog Day
I view movies basically as entertains. So I came for
the first viewing for this movie "Groundhog Day" on a Tuesday. I simply wanted to entertain
myself after a day’s work. Now, as l look back, I’d say I wasn’t wrong, for
just the first twenty minutes of the movie. The movie aroused my interest quite
successfully in the never-seen-before setting of reliving the same day. Even I
was wondering what I can do if I were able to stay on the same day. Pretty convinced
by Phil, for the moment I saw him driving messily around and playing tricks on
cops, I also wanted to try a day without any consequence. I can do whatever I
want. I can play computer games all day long without worrying the paper due
tomorrow. I can rob the bank like Phil did in the movie to buy an extremely
fancy Ferrari I could ever dream of. There is no tomorrow! No responsibility,
no consequences! I bet anyone would totally release the demon inside to enjoy
the “today”. So far, the movie was a comedy to me.
But I start to feel depressed as Phil woke up on the same
day every day. He did any evil thing he could think of on that day and ended up
waking up at the same time, same place where he woke up yesterday. The
excitement brought by the crazy things he did faded and turned to depression
and emptiness. He was happy superficially until his mind got bored. I began to
be serious to this movie. It’s not simply a comedy, but a lesson to learn.
Doing evil crazy things when you can relive the same day is not the right way
to enjoy the day. Phil reflected. So on the next same day, Phil hugged his high
school classmate warmly, he brought his colleagues hot breakfast, he tried to
save an old dying man… He changed a lot. He started to help others, become warm-hearted
and versatile, and finally, won Rita’s heart.
And now, it’s time for me to reflect. I think Phil gave us the
answer to the question of how does one live his/her life. The setting of
reliving the same day is in fact not something funny. It’s a magnifier, which
enlarges how ugly we would be and makes us realize that. Now I look back
myself, I see that terrible side of myself as I was thinking about those crazy
things I would do if I could relive the same day. Although I’m not going to do
that in reality, I can still see the effect it has on me. Say, if the
consequence of an action is irrelevant to me, will that “I can do whatever I
want” thought come out of my mind? More importantly, will I be happy if I
really act irresponsibly? Probably just for the second of action. After that,
nothing left at all. What if I act responsibly and try to make things near to
perfect like Phil did? In the movie, the spell breaks because he found the
right way to live and he finally won his true love. In reality, I believe it
makes people really happy because whenever they look back their life,
everything they did was the result of their attention and deep consideration.
They feel fulfilled, which I think is one form of ultimate happiness.
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